Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Is it fair?

Is it fair to change your opinion of someone after learning about their past?  I am going back and forth on this one.  I am not a very judgemental person; I generally take 'em as I see 'em.  But I recently found out some things about a co-worker and for some reason I am looking at her differently now.  It's weird.  I thought she was the goodie-goodie, trustworthy, church-going type... but turns out that's only because her current man is a preacher.  I have never liked the kind of girls who change everything about themselves for every man they are sleeping with... and so it is weird for me to find out that she is that girl.  I mean, do you think the punk rockers that I have dated liked that I was into quilting? In case you're confused.. no, they didn't. 

So, what do you think?  Is it fair?